December 11, 2025 5:19 pm

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Thanksgiving week wasn’t supposed to be a test. I walked into it strong, four workouts done, including a Thanksgiving morning session that made me feel unstoppable. My steps were solid, my sleep was decent, my energy was steady. I allowed myself the freedom to enjoy the holiday meal without guilt, especially my true love: stuffing.

But what happened after Thanksgiving? That was the real story.

What Really Happened After Thanksgiving

Plus-size woman enjoying Thanksgiving stuffing at a holiday table.

From Thursday through Sunday, I rode a full carb wave: stuffing, cranberry sauce, leftovers, and even a big bag of popcorn by the end. And while I don’t believe in demonizing food, I do believe in telling the truth about how certain foods affect our bodies and moods.

The Unexpected Slide That Followed

Plus-size woman feeling low energy and overwhelmed after overeating.

By Saturday, I wasn’t myself. My energy crashed. My mood dipped. My motivation evaporated. Depression crept in around the edges, and by Sunday, I could feel myself quietly checking out. I didn’t train. I didn’t track. I felt heavy in every sense of the word.

Why Overeating Isn’t the Real Problem

And here’s the part most people never realize: It’s not the overeating that derails your progress. It’s the delay in coming back.

Most women disappear after a week like this. They hide in shame, wait for motivation, or tell themselves they’ll “start again Monday.” They stay down long after the slip.

But Sunday night, I made a different choice.

I didn’t wait for Monday. I didn’t punish myself with a harsh reset. I didn’t beat myself up.

How to Get Back on Track After Overeating

Plus-size woman confidently deciding to get back on track after a slip.

I simply said, “This is far enough.” And I returned to myself.

My protocol was simple and stabilizing:

  • 20-hour fasting window

  • 4-hour eating window

  • Low carb meals to calm cravings and reset my energy

Not as penance, but as alignment.

I woke up the next day feeling like I was back in the driver’s seat.

The Real Secret: Resilience, Not Perfection

Plus-size woman tracking a fasting window and preparing low-carb meals.

When I reviewed the week’s data: steps, sleep, and even the nine pounds of inflammation I gained. I didn’t judge it. I treated it like information, not identity.

That’s resilience. And resilience is what most women are missing.

Weight loss doesn’t require perfection. It requires the courage to interrupt a slide instead of surrendering to it. It requires the ability to come back quickly, quietly, and without drama.

Your Comeback Starts the Moment You Decide

So, if you’ve slipped, here’s your reminder:

You can return at any moment. You don’t need permission. You don’t need punishment. You just need to decide.

Your comeback starts when you say it does.

Remember, Resilience Is a Skill You Build, Not a Trait You’re Born With

Start Today. Start Now. Just Start.

Plus-size woman in sparkly athleisure journaling and reflecting at a cozy desk.

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About Diane Williams

Diane Williams has spent more than 26 years helping plus-size women transform how they move, eat, and feel with strength, self-love, and zero diet drama.

As a plus-size personal trainer in NYC and founder of Curvy Goddess Personal Training & Coaching, she believes fitness should feel empowering, not punishing. Her approach focuses on building confidence, consistency, and curves that move, not chasing perfection.

Her work has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, DailyMail, Vogue Italia, Today, and The Grio, and she’s shared her expertise as a fitness columnist for FabUPlus magazine.

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